In the News: Sexy Clothing and Young Women

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In The News: JC Penny pulls inappropriate T-Shirt from stores this week after angry mothers complain. With all the inappropriate shirts I’ve seen available, I could only imagine which one drew national criticism. However, I’m shocked by which one they demanded be pulled from the stores!

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tips om binära optioner I think anyone who has to wear a shirt that says “Sexy” on it, probably isn’t. If you’re an adult who wants to wear it, you likely have some self-esteem issues, or just plain lack receiving appropriate love from your father. (Oh, man, I’m starting to get on my soapbox now.) If moms want to get up in arms about something, how about getting any shirt with sparkly “sexy” removed from stores in kid’s sizes?

Köpa Strattera online Kramfors Plus, I saw a couple student girls recently who, I assume, are cheerleaders. They had shorts with writing across the butt. This is another one of my pet peeves. What parent finds it appropriate for their child, teen, well, anyone for that matter, to draw attention to their backside with some word plastered on their derrière? Here’s a picture of the shorts. You’ll notice I’m using a picture of the short alone. I’m not about to share a picture of the shorts being worn by someone.

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There is a big difference between being attractive versus titillating. There’s nothing wrong with a young woman, and I’m talking broader than just teen girls, looking her best. Take care of yourself, look nice, dress nice – this is attractive. Guys at all ages will notice an attractive young woman. Men will be more likely to treat you like a lady if you look attractive – as opposed to always going out in your pj pants and with your hair a mess. I’m not against you being attractive.

On the other hand, being titillating (or sexy) will attract the wrong kind of attention. I understand it can give you a sense of power to get a certain response from guys, and to know you’re getting them aroused let’s you know you’re in charge in that moment. But, that provocative look doesn’t get you treated like a lady. It gets you treated like an object. Even the “good” attention you get from guys when you look sexy isn’t because they’re treating you like a lady; it’s simply being polite to the salesperson because you want to buy what they’re advertising. Trust me, this won’t get you the guy of your dreams.

Sure, overtly sexy girls will get immediate reaction from the guys. But, guys ALWAYS notice the attractive young woman. One they want for some quick satisfaction; the other they want to get to know and build a relationship with. The sexy girl is treated like a piece of meat, discarded, and eventually left alone and, likely, feeling ashamed. The attractive young woman has the real power, because the young men who pursue her will often end up making a lifelong commitment to a woman with whom they’ve fallen in love.

Skip the nasty t-shirts and be yourself. The sexy girl has to keep fixing herself up and trying to stay sexy to keep her man. (You’ve seen plenty of older ladies trying to pretend they’ve still “got it” because they still feel they have something to prove.) The young woman who seeks to be pure and attractive will still be attractive the next morning, in her wedding gown, when birthing children, and as she ages.

I know this. I’m married to a woman who’s even more attractive than when I married her over 20 years ago. I love her even more today than I did the day I said, “I do.”

The Unexamined Life and All…
Jeff

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Posted: September 1, 2011 
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  1. Brian says:

    I agree!

    Thanks for posting from a father of daughters point of view. As the parent of only boys I did not have to worry much about clothing my sons. Girls today are besieged by peer pressure to wear some of the most un-flattering and utterly distasteful clothing. I am proud of you and all parents who are willing to stand up and say NO to allowing your beautiful daughters to be abused by marketing “gurus”.

  2. admin says:

    Thanks Brian. It also takes dads who care about their sons to make a difference. We need them to understand the difference between what simply turns them on versus what really makes a woman attractive for the long-term. Thanks for being one of those dads who cares. – Jeff

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